Dowry System
Dowry system is something obnoxious and must be hated as such. It is an ancient institution, but its evil effects are most blatantly being felt in the modem times. It is prevalent, particularly in India.
All sections of Indian society, particularly those connected with Hinduism, are under the baneful effect of this system, though others are perhaps not completely free from its sway. Moreover, the rich and the poor are all under its spell and with all their pretensions and excuses, most of the people, in this matter, cannot stand the test of truth. The practice of this heinous institution is one example how sham and hypocrisy have taken toll of the morals of even the so-called highly enlightened elitist society as there are only a few who have been able to reject the temptation of dowry and unfortunately, they are hardly ever recognized or held in esteem for this courageous act of abnegation.
In fact, boys are not married but sold like goats and buffaloes and the highest bidder can purchase them. But, as far as treatment is concerned, these are the girls who are treated like animals. A girl who is married with the condition of dowry on her head is actually not married but sent to the altar for sacrifice like a sacrificial goat.
Dowry is the real manifestation of man’s unmitigated greed and misery and spells doom for all concerned. Sometimes, it is said that elders audit on it. Some say it is as per tradition. Others say, marriage devoid of dowry is a blank ritual which is bereft of all colour and gaiety of the festive mood at the time of marriage. Thus, all concerned have excuses aplenty.
It is in the fitness of things that the Anti-Dowry Acts should be enforced strictly. At the same time, it is of paramount importance that a general awakening among the people, particularly the youth, should be brought about through mass media.
It should be noted in particular that at present women are being exploited and harassed for bringing less dowry and there is no surprise that we have so many dowry deaths and suicides. All of us must join hands with the government in eradicating this menace.
